I have always had a massively awkward/non-existent relationship with my dad. He was an arse (more on that to come) to my mum and I massively judged and hated him.
Now I am in a conundrum because I thought I was Luke Skywalker and I was fighting this evil yet iconic being. I thought I was fighting some cold, robotic non-human. Now I have discovered I am my Father. Luke discovers Darth is really good (very very very very deep down) All the shit he did was because he was human and had emotions that took over his Jedi powers.
And that is my dad. All the crap he did was human and I am just repeating that same human flaw.